O.K. Please don't make fun of how I look. This was taken on day 4 after having no shower. I look horrible, but I love this picture. Everyone, meet Stephanie.
This is one of the girls I got to help up the mountain during the woman's pull. She ROCKED! We had many conversations about not giving up and about how 9 out of 10 trekker said their feet were numb (they really were). One of our talks went like this...
"All of my preparation was for nothing! I walked on an inclined treadmill for 4 miles everyday and look at me now - I can't do this!"
"Yes you can! Say it with me, YES YOU CAN!"
"yes I can." said sheepishly.
"Think about what you would be like if you had chosen not o prepare. Think about how you are doing it and not quitting. Some girls didn't even try to do this woman's pull and you are doing it!"
"Yea. But I am not pulling the handcart."
"Do you think every pioneer was healthy the whole way? Don't you think some people had to take a break and just walk and then jump back in? YOU CAN DO THIS! Now let's go walk beside your family and encourage them. You are still a part of this family and this woman's pull. You can be their to help your family."
It went on and on like this up the hill. Every time her family would stop and take a break, Stephanie would encourage her family and then keep trekkin' up the hill. She needed to keep moving to stay up with them. She had a hard time physically, but mentally through the hardest part of the trek - she did it! I was proud of her. There were many stories like hers up the mountain that day.
Another story that I won't forget, involved a girl I knew.

She didn't do the Woman's Pull, but on Friday when she came to the Life Skill Game that I managed we had a moment. She wanted to opt out, again. She was scared of getting in the middle and having her family support her. The goal of this game was to have only one person touch the wood "A" frame and everyone else could only touch the ropes, then they had to move the "A" frame across the grass from flag marker to flag marker. This girl was willing to participate on the ropes, but didn't want to be the one touching the wooden "A" frame in the middle. She told me this when she walked up.
"I don't want to be in the middle."
"Why are you opting out already?"
"I am scared."
"Don't you trust you family? Do you have faith that they will support you?"
Now keep in mind, the family hasn't even gotten all of the way there yet. There were stragglers and she was already making a choice to opt out.
"I trust my family."
"Ok, good. Then let's shake on it. Give me you hand and tell me that you will get in the middle and be supported by your family. Tell me, YES, I WILL DO THIS ACTIVITY."
She wouldn't shake.
So I try again, "Do you trust me? Would I make you do anything that was unsafe? Do you think that I would hurt you? Ok. Then shake my hand."
She did.
When it was her turn - she got up and complained. She said things like, I am scared. So I told her family to support her and make her feel of their love for her. Comfort her in her time of need. Then she said she didn't want to do this, but she still stayed up. I told her sometimes we have to do hard things in life. I asked her if there was anything she had to do in life that she didn't like. She said school. I explained that school wasn't fun but it makes you a better person. Sometimes we have to get outside our comfort zone to grow in life. I promised her that this activity would make her a better person.
I honestly don't know if she got it. I don't even know if she thought we had a moment, but I felt like we did. I will always look at this girl and want the best for her - even if it means pushing her outside her comfort zone.